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Many translated example sentences containing "like mother like daughter" – German-English Here the mother should think of the future of the child, for instance like this: Once my lost a son or a daughter, a mother, a father, or both. Image result for father daughter quotes Papa Tochter Zitate, Vermisse Meinen 50 Thoughtful Dad Quotes To Show Him How Much You Care On Father's Day If You Don't Think Photos Are Important, Wait Until They Are All You Have Left. He's always safe when he's with his mommy and daddy:) #wardens 60+ Inspiring Mother Daughter Quotes and Relationship Goals | Family Love Gifts I think about anything and everything that could happen in certain scenarios. I. Mother fries her babies on oven and call guilty so you think - gwinnet county Dad convicted of murdering daughter, but 'Baby Kate' still missing (Pt. 1)​. How taboo are bad moms? Worse than bad dads? It's more acceptable to talk about bad dads because we think of men being louder, and if a.

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He's always safe when he's with his mommy and daddy:) #wardens 60+ Inspiring Mother Daughter Quotes and Relationship Goals | Family Love Gifts I think about anything and everything that could happen in certain scenarios. I. - Erkunde Gertrude Fritzhausens Pinnwand „Mum VS Dad“ auf Pinterest. Weitere Ideen zu texts between parents where the father is threatening to kill their daughter's 7 year old suitor But I did not think they'd be this adorable! Image result for father daughter quotes Papa Tochter Zitate, Vermisse Meinen 50 Thoughtful Dad Quotes To Show Him How Much You Care On Father's Day If You Don't Think Photos Are Important, Wait Until They Are All You Have Left.

Dad is in a bad mood and ends up making Via cry, so he takes August Via: Time to Think. Tushman finds out, Justin: Valentine's Day.

They make plans for Justin to meet Mom and Dad , so they all go out to a Mexican restaurant. Justin's nerves bring out his tics, Daisy greets them at the door, and Mom and Dad discover that she threw up.

Mom cleans it up while Dad tells the story of August: North Pole. August notices that his classmates' parents August: My Cave.

Things seem better by dinner. Dad is out, and Daisy is asleep after vomiting again, so Mom makes her an appointment August: Goodbye.

Mom explains that Dad will meet her at the vet, and August needs to say goodbye. August does as August: Daisy's Toys.

Two hours later, Mom and Dad come home without Daisy. August knows that Daisy is gone. They all sit in the August: Understudy.

August keeps his head down and follows Mom and Dad to the auditorium and they flip through the program. August asks why Via's role is August: The Ending.

August stood up with the audience to applaud, and Dad explained that this is called a standing ovation. August thinks that Via and Justin must Davenport comes over, and Via introduces him to Mom, Dad , and August.

Justin pulls Mr. Davenport away before he can look too embarrassed at his However, when Miranda peeks at the audience from backstage and sees August, Mom, and Dad , she suddenly mumbles to Mr.

Davenport that she feels sick and can't go on. Miranda: The Performance. She notices August looking lost, rushes up behind him, and greets him.

Miranda: After the Show. Miranda explains that her parents weren't able to make it, and Mom and Dad invite her to join them for a celebratory dinner.

August pleads and Via walks up, Christopher almost had a sleepover but at about midnight, August panicked. Lisa called Mom and Dad and they came and got him.

August says that this is all he's worried about; August: The Fairgrounds. During some downtime, August writes a letter to Mom, Dad , and Via.

When the class arrives at the fairgrounds where they'll see the movie, the August: Sleep. August: The Drop-Off. Dad drives August to the graduation ceremony at the auditorium.

They arrive early, so they sit August is livid. Dad clumsily explains that he couldn't handle August covering his face anymore.

He was sad that August and Dad see Jack approaching, so August starts to get out of the car. Dad confirms that August: Pictures. August allows his parents and other relatives to hug him.

They start taking pictures, and Dad calls Summer and Jack over to take a group picture. August doesn't even think about August: The Walk Home.

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Powered by WordPress. Parenting Expand the sub menu. Health Expand the sub menu. This is definitely not one of the things that any of us anticipated having to deal with.

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In Go. Clare49 Apr When I saw an email to notify me that someone had added a comment to this post, I had to stop and go back and read it through again.

November when I originally wrote the post seems so long ago Jet, I think you would be doing the right thing by trying to get the appropriate level of care that each of them needs.

It may be very difficult for them at first but it will be even more difficult for your dad to heal properly and get the rest he needs while coping with the constant stress of your mom's confusion.

I lived about miles from my parents before my mom passed and dad came to live with us. The last year of my mom's life, she was plagued with chronic health problems that I now realize were undoubtedly made worse by the stress she was under with my dad.

I visited times per month and they were still able to hide a lot of it from me. It wasn't until she was gone that I realized how hard it must of been on her.

I wish the best for your parents and for you! Jet Mar It is a little after 2am, and I am sitting in the library at the seniors home typing this post.

My parents were in the midst of moving in here when my father became ill, and wound up in the hospital with heart and a multitude of other issues.

I promptly came out 2 days later to help my folks out. I live in New England, my folks live in western Canada.

Their house is sold, and I am trying to help my mother settle in, and make the apartment a home. The first couple of nights were OK, but tonight she began to think that I am my father, and the time line went back to when they were courting.

She told me that her parents would be back soon, and I had to leave. When I tried to use logic, she became agitated. The ironic part was that she angrily called me by my name, but still confused me with my dad.

It was a surreal combination for me. Instead of arguing, I left the apartment, and began researching to see if others have been in the same situation.

It gave me great comfort to see this thread. I will not say "misery loves company", but the challenges we are enduring are partially mitigated by the camaraderie we are sharing.

My father will be released from hospital soon, but given his current state, he would not last long if he has to endure this type of situation.

I can not stay here long, and relocating them to my neck of the woods would not be possible. I have 2 patients to deal with. I think that it may be time to move mom to more critical care, and give my dad some breathing room to relax.

I will see if they can still remain in the same facility, but apart. I need peace of mind as well. OP, I feel your pain.

My mother-in-law thinks that my husband her son is HER late husband. I know she has dementia but it still drives me nuts every time she says that.

OldBob Sep It is said that one person with dementia will keep 20 people busy. Your experience proves it. Despite difficulties in doing so, it may be time to have dad put into a nursing home If you choose not to do that, or if you simply cannot do it, you may want to try this ruse I empathize with you.

Clare, when Mom and I cared for her dad over 20 years ago, he would ask us 20 times a day "where is my wife?

We would remind him over and over that she had died and he would grieve all over again every time. We were at our wits end, but there wasn't much info out there on how to deal with dementia back then.

Now Mom is the same way and I have learned to redirect her attention to something else when I know the correct answer will agitate and confuse her.

I also find just giving generic answers like "really", "sure", uh-huh" is just enough to satisfy her. Remember that they can't remember from one minute to the next, so telling the truth can do more harm than good.

It sounds to me like he needs to move into a nursing home or a memory care facility. At some facilities they have specialists who can work with the residents, to help them with their memory loss.

Your husband and son have to live there too, and it sounds like that would be hard for anyone to take. You have to live there, and it sounds like too much for you to take!

Reverseroles Dec Thank you Kabeena, Bookworm and Clare49, I do believe we are setting a great example for our families and friends, unconditional love.

Pats to all of you on your backs!!!! Remember, when it gets tough, sing! Clare49 Dec Thought I would let you all know that my dad hasn't referred to me as his wife for a week or more Any of us, for that matter.

But he seems to trust us when we tell him who we are, show him pictures and assure him that he is safe and loved here. Also, my husband is spending more time in the house with us, but I actually think he likes being out in his "man-cave" and sometimes my dad is just an excuse for him to go out there!

He is a guy that like's his space. It's heated and has cable tv, so it's not like he's sitting out in the dark in a tool shed! Reserve, doesn't it make you so proud of your son to see his compassionate side?

And it is just wonderful that his gf is helping too! My son also has a gf that is very kind to grandpa. The other day I was at work and my son was with my dad.

When it was lunch time, my dad was reluctant to go to the kitchen because he wasn't sure who my son was. His gf came over and asked my dad to join her for lunch and he got up and went right to the table.

He is much more comfortable with women! She sat and had lunch with him and put him at ease. It made me smile Compassion is a quality that seems to be on the decline in our society and it makes me happy to know my son is with someone that possesses it!

Kabeeena Dec Reverse- Wow, you are so blessed to have such a wonderful son, and on top of that you are getting a wonderful daughter-in-law!

Makes me happy to hear about such goodness. Thank you! Foredelicastle -- I don't know what you wrote but Everyone has a say. I have recently experienced with this by saying something and was "verbally attacked" by others.

Unfortunately, it also got other posters to "verbally defend" me. I went to AC admin and asked them to delete My Comments because it was causing division among the posters.

As other posters kept telling me, this is a Publin Forum and we all have a say - as long as we dont' Attack other people or Tell them what to do.

We can suggest or bring up what helped for us. I have learned to be more careful with what I say - most times.

Fordelicastle -- from the comments that is still here on AC, I did not find anything wrong. We each have a choice - parents stay at home vs. Each of us have a Limit before we want to have our parent move to some form of assisted living.

And some do Not Have Limits and can care for that parent to the end. We each need to base on what we can do. As for myself, if we had the funds, one parent would definitely go to assisted living but in reality, the one parent I would love to go - would not be the one chosen.

Anyway, the point is moot since we have no money to send either one. So, I just do what I need to do. Too bad with 7 siblings, only 1 is helping me physically with the parents.

Foredeli - please come back to AC if you are still caregiving or still suffering from the effects of caregiving. I have read over and over on this site, that just because parent is now in NH or AL, the cg is still suffering from Post Traumatic Stress.

Reverse -- I am sooooo glad that your son and gf are helping! Bro and his wife, too. I have no help even though I have asked and asked.

Since then, I don't have so much anger and resentment towards the rest of my siblings. But, I am soooo glad that my visiting nieces do help suctioning mom when they do their weekly visits.

Yep, you have a pretty good son!! Claire49, Your house and family sounds exactly like ours!! We spoile Mom and we sing at supper to her, especially the old songs and Christmas songs.

Some nights her arms and feet start to go and she is so happy it brings us all to tears. Big hugs to you, we are in the same boat and my son, who is still here also, is such a joy to my Mom.

He wont let her go to sleep without giving her a big kiss and trying to make her laugh and he now knows how to use the hoyer lift and helps us out with that.

He and his fiance even gave us a few weekends to go away and cared for her, diapers and all, pretty good at 26 if I must say so.

Keep holding your head high girl!! Kabeena, this just a normal stage. For us, it worked out well because my Mom thought my husband was her husband and he held her hand every night during supper for maybe a year.

My Mom went through the aggitation, sundowners, and wandering stages too and its so true that you can not reason with them when they are in that mode.

Keep all the doors locked up high If you want to, we ended up putting Mom on depakote sprinkles after a year for her aggitation.

My sweet little Mom was trying to jump out my window!! It was a life saver for us. Once on them the anger and aggitation stopped.

Hang in there, its just a stage and they are so worth it, this too will pass. Hugs RR. MishkaM Dec CLara, you sound like a wonderful daughter, mother and wife and I am sure you are making the best possible decision for your entire family.

None of us, myself included, should tell you what is best because how could we know-like you said -each situation is unique.

I think you sound lovely. And your husband and father and son are blessed to have you in their lives. Amen, Clare49! What a blessing that you were all there to enjoy that gift!

It does my heart good just to hear about it. I think all situations are unique when it comes to Alzheimer's. The relationship you had with your loved one before this disease invaded your lives has a lot to do with the commitment and passion you put into helping that person.

As I have said previously, my dad was a great dad and family man. He sacrificed alot for all of his family including our spouses and children and so helping him in this final chapter of his life is a no-brainer.

Obviously, I am sure Fordellcastle is rolling her eyes and will always think of me as selfish and self serving. She will not believe me when I say that my husband is an equal partner in this journey or that my son is cool with Grandpa living here.

On a side note, my son is 23 years old and has his own life. Won't be living here much longer anyway.

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In other words, it's pretty unlikely the father would abuse, kidnap or otherwise intentionally let his son come to harm. Sometimes I blamed my mom but it was fleeting and usually just when I was mad at her. I know it is tough and it is not the plan any of us had, but we can only give them guidance and to be there for them when the pieces crumble. Read most recent letters to the editor. The reason this is a struggle for me is because I realize that I am not a perfect parent. Dad thinks daughter is mom

August and Dad both say no, and August sits in Mom's lap. Mom reminds him that she's struggling August: Driving.

August wakes up after dark to hear Mom and Dad whispering about sending him to school. Dad is angry and says that sending August to Mom explains that she and Dad met the principal last year, and August is even more hurt that his parents have Tushman, the principal, and August is aghast at Mr.

Tushman's name. Dad jokes about Mr. Tushman's name and explains that in college, he and Mom had a August: Home.

August: First-Day Jitters. On the first day of school, August is very nervous. Mom and Dad take pictures of him and Via, and they all decide to walk August to school August: Padawan.

August cuts off his Padawan braid that night. Dad is thrilled, but Via seems angry and demands to know if someone made fun of Dad asks August if he's mad at Mom, and August insists that she's the most to August: Costumes.

On Halloween morning, Via has a meltdown. Dad is late and is uncharacteristically not patient with her, so Mom and Dad finally decide Via: A Tour of the Galaxy.

Via tells the reader that August is the sun, while she, Mom, and Dad are just planets orbiting around him.

Daisy the dog is the only being in the Via: August Through the Peephole. Mom and Dad can still read him, but Via can't.

She thinks that he's ten years old and Via: High School. In middle school, however, not as many people knew about August. It was nice to Via: The Padawan Bites the Dust.

Mom agrees, but she doesn't come back. Dad does, and Via tells him that Miranda and Ella are being jerks. He teases her Via: Breakfast.

Mom is perplexed Dad impatiently says that if Via is old enough to read War and Peace, she's old Via: Genetics Via explains that Dad 's family is Jewish, while Mom's family is Brazilian.

Except for Grans and Grans' husband, who Via: The Punnett Square. She says that she likes how doctors talk, using words that Via: October Via wakes up on Halloween thinking about Grans, and she feels sad and weepy.

Dad is in a bad mood and ends up making Via cry, so he takes August Via: Time to Think. Tushman finds out, Justin: Valentine's Day.

They make plans for Justin to meet Mom and Dad , so they all go out to a Mexican restaurant. Justin's nerves bring out his tics, Daisy greets them at the door, and Mom and Dad discover that she threw up.

Mom cleans it up while Dad tells the story of August: North Pole. August notices that his classmates' parents August: My Cave. Things seem better by dinner.

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Health Expand the sub menu. Claire49, Your house and family sounds exactly like ours!! We spoile Mom and we sing at supper to her, especially the old songs and Christmas songs.

Some nights her arms and feet start to go and she is so happy it brings us all to tears. Big hugs to you, we are in the same boat and my son, who is still here also, is such a joy to my Mom.

He wont let her go to sleep without giving her a big kiss and trying to make her laugh and he now knows how to use the hoyer lift and helps us out with that.

He and his fiance even gave us a few weekends to go away and cared for her, diapers and all, pretty good at 26 if I must say so. Keep holding your head high girl!!

Kabeena, this just a normal stage. For us, it worked out well because my Mom thought my husband was her husband and he held her hand every night during supper for maybe a year.

My Mom went through the aggitation, sundowners, and wandering stages too and its so true that you can not reason with them when they are in that mode.

Keep all the doors locked up high If you want to, we ended up putting Mom on depakote sprinkles after a year for her aggitation.

My sweet little Mom was trying to jump out my window!! It was a life saver for us. Once on them the anger and aggitation stopped.

Hang in there, its just a stage and they are so worth it, this too will pass. Hugs RR. MishkaM Dec CLara, you sound like a wonderful daughter, mother and wife and I am sure you are making the best possible decision for your entire family.

None of us, myself included, should tell you what is best because how could we know-like you said -each situation is unique.

I think you sound lovely. And your husband and father and son are blessed to have you in their lives. Amen, Clare49! What a blessing that you were all there to enjoy that gift!

It does my heart good just to hear about it. I think all situations are unique when it comes to Alzheimer's.

The relationship you had with your loved one before this disease invaded your lives has a lot to do with the commitment and passion you put into helping that person.

As I have said previously, my dad was a great dad and family man. He sacrificed alot for all of his family including our spouses and children and so helping him in this final chapter of his life is a no-brainer.

Obviously, I am sure Fordellcastle is rolling her eyes and will always think of me as selfish and self serving.

She will not believe me when I say that my husband is an equal partner in this journey or that my son is cool with Grandpa living here.

On a side note, my son is 23 years old and has his own life. Won't be living here much longer anyway. And we don't expect him to stay just for my dad.

But the fact is, we didn't enter this journey with blinders on. And we aren't going to give up the first time something happens that we weren't planning on.

For goodness sake! In my opinion, it would be much more selfish of us to place him in a NH just so we could get back to our lives. Last night at dinner, my dad was so "with it" that we were all amazed -- I think even he was a little surprised!

We had great conversation, talked about my mom, our lives, and just took a little time to enjoy each other's company. Those little pockets of time, when we get to see the real man again, are what energizes us and gives us the strength to keep going.

Good luck to all of you! I hope you are all able to find peace with whatever decisions you make for yourself and your loved one.

Fordellcastle- you story seems sad. I am sorry you have had such grief in yur life. Alzheimer's such a horrid disease.

My grandmother had it and I worked in a nursing home years ago with many residents that had it. So hard. We all just do the best we can. I do not know why your post would have been taken down- I do not think you are saying anything bad.

I just wanted to stress that I was coming from a short term solution. I realize placement in an ALF or nursing home can't happen overnight.

Plans need to be made, though. It is going to get worse-a lot worse. No one who has lived through watching this cruel disease ravaging their loved one would want to live like that or put their family through the pain of it.

My background is different from many of you. I loved my Dad dearly, and he had a brain stem stroke which resulted in dementia of a sort.

He did not want to go on living like that. I love my Mom, too, despite everything. Caring for her is what my Dad would want, and I do my best.

She is stage 4 now. She will go to a Memory Care unit, as my aunt did for a short period before her death. I have said before-my message was evidently reported, and will no doubt be reported again-my aunt Mom's sister had Alzheimer's.

Her living will stated just that, as does mine. She had witnessed her Mom's 'living death' as she termed it, and could not help care for her.

She and her husband refused to put their family through it. Watching our family disintegrate from a distance was too much. I guess I want people to know how horrible this disease is, and the damage it causes not just to the victims of it.

There is a difference between quantity of life and quality of life. I'm a helluva lot more scared of living with Alzheimer's than being in a nursing home or dying.

Life is for the living. It goes way too fast, and these are years with your husband, children, and grandchildren you will never get back.

I could never be that selfish and put my daughters through it. I won't post again. What should she and her husband and son do while waiting to get into a nursing home?

They should just abandon her in her hour of need? I certainly do not think dressing in a scrub top a permanent answer and I am sure Clara does not expect her husband to keep going out into the garage- sorry Clara if I am putting words into your posts- but it seems to me she wasn't going to be able to just up and get her Dad out of the house that fast-unless I am missing something.

Not a solution to the overall problem but a way to handle the nights until she could get an overall solution.

Good thing she said her Dad has stopped his behavior. I hope that continues and do agree that it may be time for assisted living.

NoTryDoYoda Dec If you ask your husband and son to come home after a long days work and play 'dress up' as health care workers, then send your husband to the garage, you need to do them both a favor and get some serious family counseling.

Don't be surprised when husband and son pack up and leave to make their home elsewhere. It is the sanest, healthiest thing for both to distance themselves from this situation.

If Dad were in his right mind, would he want you to be destroying your marriage for him? Okay, toxic parents would, but the normal, loving parent would say your marriage and son come first: "I've had a long, wonderful life.

Don't sacrifice yours for me. Veronica91 Dec This is about the most challenging caregiving situation there is. If this is destroying your family it is time to place Dad in a Nursing home.

Hard and cruel as this may sound it can go on for years Try to keep a simple routine and put away decorative items around the house. Place a few items around and in his room that remind him of long ago.

Old photographs or maybe things he or his wife made. Make his bedding old fashioned, similar to the way it was when he was younger.

His vision is probably poor so if he needs a clock or watch make it a big one. Sometimes an animal can be a big comfort especially if it resembles one he had in the past.

TVs etc can be very disorientating as is constant noise. If he loved music keep it playing softly. When you approach him identify yourself.

Often when the elderly are talking about "going home" they are talking about dying not returning to a former abode. Above all give yourself a break, even if it's just for an hour or two to have lunch with friends,get your hair done, have a massage or read a book in the park.

You can also try lying on the bed beside him for a short while if it calms him before sleep as long as he doesn't think he has marital privilages.

God bless and good luck. Kabeeena Nov Clare49 -I 'm so sorry, I didn't mean to scare you. I just wanted you to know that things can get bad for a while, but they also can improve or change to a different form that is easier to manage.

I've been caring for mom for 6 years now. We had a couple of very bad years. Mom was always very generous, loyal and loving, with a quick wit, but also had a somewhat difficult personality - stubborn and contrary and opinionated, and never wrong, all which really came out with her dementia, and she became demanding, selfish and non-compliant, and fought me on everything!

Things are better now, partly my own adjustment and figuring out how to handle things better. Like, I used to get so mad when she was noncompliant about things I really needed her to do, one, because she was so ornery about it, and also because I just wanted that particular task to be as easy as it should be and not have to spend all this time trying to convince her and getting so frustrated.

Like, taking pills. She would either refuse altogether or take a few and then say, I don't want any more. And I would try to explain that she needs to take all of them, not pick and choose, and try to remind her that the times when we have forgotten and she didn't get her pills, she ended up feeling lousy by the end of the day, but that got me nowhere but angry and defeated.

Now, I have learned to just say, "ok" and walk away. A couple of minutes later I go back and say, "Hey, mom, it's time for your morning pills" and this time, she is just as likely to say, "oh, thank you, honey!

No need to get all worked up and engaged in conflict! Things are also better because my brother has come around and is much more helpful and supportive, and the medications she is on now have helped with her frustration and agitation, and she is much more easy -going and cooperative.

And finding this site has been a godsend. It has really made a diference. Clare49, it sounds like you are way ahead of the game, you have a lot going for you already.

You have a wonderful father, and it sounds like he has an easier personality to begin with. Your husband and son are with you and they love him and are committed to helping him.

They are a team you can brainstorm with to find creative approaches. And you found this site. As difficult as caregiving for someone you love who has dementia is, I don't think you need to fear that your situation is going to be as difficult as mine was for a time.

And though there may be times that are particularly trying, they won't necessarily stay that way forever.

Bless you. MishkaM Nov Clare49 I can see where it would be very tricky to pretend you are a nurse with your Dad. He sounds like such an amazing man.

And him asking for honesty from you- gives me a lump in my throat- he might be very upset if he came out of a confused state to see you pending to be someone else.

Unless you were honest about that during his lucid moments. Could you talk to him now -explain to him tthqt at times he forgets you are his daughter and not his wife.

Just be completely honest with him now and say -" Dad, we went through a period with you when you thought I was your wife and I could not get you to understand I was not.

If this happens again I have decided to wear nursing scrubs so you know I am not your wife. Then if you are wearing them and he comes out of his confusion and wonders why the heck you are pretending to be his nurse you can say " I told you, Dad, at times you think I am your wife and that when that happens if I wear these clothes it helps you realize I am not and you relax.

Hoping one sticks for ya.

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  1. Shacage Yozshur

    Ist Einverstanden, das sehr nГјtzliche StГјck

  2. Daile Meztisar

    Nach meiner Meinung lassen Sie den Fehler zu. Ich kann die Position verteidigen. Schreiben Sie mir in PM.

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